Today we went down to Salem to visit T’s mom, partly because her birthday is on Tuesday and she’s going to be celebrating it in the Caribbean (poor thing) and partly because we thought it would be nice to spend the day with her. T’s mom (we’ll call her S. from here on out) has three dogs of her own and her house is pretty much doggie Disneyland. She has a nice big yard for them to run around in, tons of toys and generally just a laid back attitude toward all of the chaos and dirt that they produce. Our dogs have a great time down there, even though Wally barks his fool head off at one of her dogs.
Salem isn’t that far from Portland in geographical terms, but it feels a lot farther away than it is. Visiting is like traveling back in time – things move a lot slower around there. T. grew up here, as did his mom and most of their family. Hearing their stories, it’s amazing how many things remain unchanged and how many weird little shops and businesses have been here for seemingly forever, while others flounder and die off in a few months.
Originally, our itinerary included a bike ride but spring time in Oregon is capricious at best, so even though it was sunny the whole drive down, by the time we got there and got ready to go it was pouring rain. Since I was already dressed and had an hour and a half ride on my training plan, I decided to do my ride on the trainer while S. & T. went to Target to look for a suitcase for S’s upcoming trip. Naturally, five minutes after I started on the trainer the rain pretty much stopped and it was sunny again. Stupid Oregon weather.
T. & S. returned from their errand just as I was finishing my ride and we had a little time to chill before we met S’s second husband for lunch. (Quick side story on S: she’s been married & divorced three times and remains on friendly terms with all three. In fact, husband #3 lives across the street. T’s father is husband #1, but unlike the other two who live in Salem, he lives up in Seattle… ) I indulged in the ultimate recovery meal, a piece of homemade lemon pie and a Diet Coke. Yum!

As I was taking the pie out of the fridge, I noticed that it had a post-it note on the Saran Wrap:


Ummm, okay… I guess you know you’ll see it there…
I took my yummy pie into the living room to torture T. but he was busy torturing the dogs, so I settled for photographing him. This is him with S’s youngest dog Lola, a.k.a Satan Spawn. (Seriously, she’s awful. It’s a good thing she’s cute!)

Then he moved onto tormenting Wally…

Aren’t they so cute? Speaking of cute, here’s S:

Unlike many married people I know, I’m very fortunate to have a really great relationship with my mother-in-law. She treats me like the daughter she never had (T’s an only child) and has always gone out of her way to make me feel included and a member of the family. Believe me, I know how lucky I am…
T. had a good time laughing at the gift that S. was bringing the friend she’s staying with in the Caribbean (don’t ask!) and we had a good time decorating Smokey Joe with the ribbons from S’s present.


Smokey Joe wasn’t quite so thrilled to be photographed. (He looks possessed, doesn’t he?)
Here’s Moots, he’s very pretty but not the brightest penny in the fountain:

Finally, Husband #2 arrived and we headed off to lunch for some yummy Mexican food:

Mmmmm, sopitos! It’s very strange, Salem doesn’t have a lot of different cuisines to choose from, but they have some great Mexican food. We had a nice lunch, watched S & Husband #2 tease each other and generally catch up on everybody’s doings. Sufficiently stuffed, we hung out a little longer back at the house and let the dogs play in the backyard, then headed home.
All in all, a lovely day was had by all and now the dogs are tired again. Score! Now, it’s time for some serious couch-loafing…